Well hello there. Nice to meet you! While I’m unsure how you stumbled upon my blog….welcome.
I’ve actually neglected my little Folk Fairy for quite some time. And quite honestly I feel a little bad. Let’s change that to A LOT bad. Poor, little fairy. Oh how I missed her. But 2018 blew by in a flash and I found myself focusing all of my attention on my first novel (more on that later).
So it’s now 2019. Wow! That just sounds strange. But I am embracing a new year. A year that I know that will be full of love, laughter, adventures to share and stories to tell. I am knowfulthat this will be a much better year than the last. Not that 2018 was all bad as it had its wonderful moments too.
I found myself struggling, a lot last year. The air was filled with such hatred and loathing. People against each other and many countries living in disarray and separation. Rather than allow myself to be devoured by the negativity I turned to the study of hygge.
What is hygge you ask? According to the dictionary it is defined as “a quality of coziness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment or well-being (regarded as a defining characteristic of Danish culture)”. I was first introduced to hygge in The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living written by Meik Wiking. Meik happens to be the CEO of the Happiness Research Institute. Can you imagine? A job where you research happiness? How splendid that must be! And Meik was kind enough to share his knowledge with us. I highly recommend his book. He also has written The Little Book of Lykke: Secrets of the World’s Happiest People, which is next up on my reading list. My hope is to one day meet Mr. Wiking and personally thank him for changing my life. Trust me, read his book and you too will be living much more happily.
The year 2018 brought me many happy times…3 trips to Walt Disney World, a glorious week spent on St. George Island, the completion of my first manuscript, adventures to state parks, learning French (not too well right now but getting there), and many new experiences (too many to list here).
But 2018 also handed me the rough times. I bid farewell to two wonderful men who had both served as mentors to me. Sean Demery, I will never forget your humor, incredible knowledge of music, and strength. Mr. Bill Turpin, you were like an uncle to me. You were so supportive of me and made me feel like family. I shall miss you both.
We also experienced our first true hurricane since moving to the panhandle. We had no idea of the magnitude and severity of Hurricane Michael until we were given the mandatory evacuation orders. If you’ve ever experienced that, you can understand the pain I felt in my heart, as I looked at my house one last time unsure if it would still be standing when we returned.
My sister and I packed up what was most important and took our two corgis on a three plus hour drive to Northwest Alabama. The next several hours would be excruciating. The uncertainty of what was occurring at home and the fate of the other evacuees we met at the hotel.
But we were among the fortunate. Michael spared us by a mere 30 miles.
Those less fortunate are still struggling. Almost three months later and many areas still appear as war zones. The devastation is like nothing I’d ever seen.
But from the loss came camaraderie. Neighbors helping neighbors. The outpouring of care from the communities will help the towns rise from the wreckage. I witnessed so many people gathering items for those who lost everything. People came from other areas to pitch in and help where they could, even if it was just offering a hug or a shoulder. And I think these displays of care and compassion helped strengthen our communities and made us #panhandlestrong.
My sister Judy took this photo on our drive back home from Alabama. We left knowing that many of the evacuees we met probably lost everything. But in this time of despair, our two dogs brought smiles to many faces. When I look at this picture, it’s as if Peyton is consoling his brother, Eli. Or perhaps telling him “job well done”.
At midnight on January first I held tight to all the good memories and allowed the bad to float off into the darkness. I look forward to sharing more of my blog with you because I have a lot of stories swirling around in my head. I am also on a cooking adventure where I will be experimenting with new recipes and promise to post the results…good or bad… right here with my little Folk Fairy by my side.
Oh I almost forgot. Earlier I mentioned that I was focusing much of my time last year on my first novel. The title is The Inheritance. It’s the first installment in a trilogy of books. I am currently in the process of submitting query letters to literary agents and publishing companies. So please stay tuned. I am ready to introduce the world to Cayla. I have it on good authority that you all will really like her.
Until we meet again, spread some sparkle into the world. Trust me, there are many who need it. Oh and be sure to pick up one of Meik’s books. I promise you will not be disappointed.
Cheers!